Going To High School Online - CBS News
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Exchange Students from Middle East Arrive in America Without Homes, an alert for student community, Punjab Newsline Newtork, Tuesday, 05 September 2006
http://www.punjabnewsline.com/content/view/1456/
Student Exchange Organization: Pacific Intercultural Exchange (PIE)
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Some Students land in U.S. without schools, hosts by Sonia Moghe, 08-28-06 -- Associated Press
Student Exchange Organization: United Students Association
http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/APStories/stories/D8JPKQ1O0.html
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Note: The following situation by EF Foundation's coordinator violates regulations of the US Department of State, as well as Standards of CSIET, as follows:
Host Homes needed for students by Monique Quibodeaux, Mid County Chronicle, 08-23-06
One Mid County woman is working hard to ensure an educational exchange doesn't turn into a devastating return after five students arrived in the area for a foreign exchange program, but have no "host families" to live with.
Tara Morgan-Broadway, coordinator with the EF Foundation, said five students have arrived to the area for a foreign exchange program, and officials are now in need of families with which they can live.
"Several host families backed out, and there was a change in the rules for the Houston school district," Morgan-Broadway said. "All five of these students need to be placed in the Mid County area. If we can't find families for them, they'll be sent home."
Bianca XXXX(*), 17, of Austria; arrived in Nederland last week for a 10month stay. The teen has already enrolled as a senior at Nederland High School, but is staying with MorganBroadway until a host family can be found for her. XXXX(*), however, hasn't let this small setback ruin her experience.
"Its very different from home," said XXXX(*), who speaks four different languages. "I like it so far."
Including XXXX(*), the five students in need of temporary homes are from either Austria, Denmark or Vietnam.
"This is really a wonderful experience," said Morgan Broadway. "Its an opportunity to bring a new culture into your home. And the EF Foundation provides a lot of support to host families."
Families interested in hosting a foreign exchange student are subject to an interview, said MorganBroadway, and then the student can be in their home within days. The five here now, however, only have two weeks to be placed before they must return home.
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United States Department of State Rules and Regulations:
Regulation 62.25(d)(3) states, "Ensure that no organizational representative act as both host family and area supervisor for any exchange student participant."
Regulation 62.25(f)(2) states, "Under no circumstances may a sponsor facilitate the entry into the United States of an exchange student for whom a written school placement has not been secured."
Regulation 62.25 (f)(5) states, "Sponsors may not facilitate the enrollment of more than five exchange students in one school unless the school itself has requested, in writing, the placement of more than five students."
Council on Standards on International Educational Travel (CSIET)
Standard 4: Promotion B: "The organization shall not publicize the need for host families via any public media with announcements, notices, advertisements, etc, that:
a. are not sufficiently in advance of the student's arrival
b. appeal to public pity or guilt
c. imply in any way that a student will be denied participation if a host family is not found immediately
d. identify photos of individual students and include an appeal for an immediate family.
"It is not permissible to identify that specific student as needing a home."
(*) CSFES will protect the identity of the student, therefore, exclude her last name, which was stated in the news article. The student is also pictured standing with her EF Foundation coordinator. CSFES protects the identity of the student and will not include the photo.
The story states that several host families backed out. In referring to Tips for Parents on our site, you will read:
**Be very concerned if prior to your son or daughter's departure, you are notified by the student exchange organization that there has been a sudden change with the Host Family selected for your child. If you are told the Host Family is no longer the same "due to a divorce or unforeseen circumstances," etc., this is a major concern to CSFES." **
You will be told that a Welcome Family will instead await your son or daughter. It has been our experience that this gives cause for your child to potentially be bounced around from Welcome Family many times prior to a "permanent" family being secured. Does the organization pre-screen welcome families, including fingerprint background checks?
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http://www.washingtonobserver.org/document.cfm?documentid=1413&charid=1
By Yan Li of The Washington Observer, July, 2007
English summary as follows:
"Exchange Students in the United States Suffer Unpleasant Conditions" by Yan Li of The Washington Observer, August, 2006. An interview with Danielle Grijalva, director of the Committee for Safety of Foreign Exchange Students and Craig Brown, vice president of Intrax Culture Exchange.
http://www.washingtonobserver.org/en/topic.cfm?topicid=58&charid=3
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Protect Teen Visitors -- Rules May Avert Problems for Exchange Students, 07/24/06 TheReporter.com
The number of high school foreign exchange students who run into serious difficulties with their host families while studying in the United States is relatively small -- up to 100 complaints a year from 30,000 sponsored students who come here each year, according to the U.S. State Department.
But if you are one of those students, what you encounter - sexual, physical or financial abuse - is no small matter.
The Solano County District Attorney's Office is currently looking into what seems to be at least a case of financial abuse involving an 18-year-old exchange student who studied in Vacaville this past school year. Even if the DA declines to prosecute, the matter seems minimally to be one of ineffective supervision and placement by the organization that sponsored the student's trip.
The fact New York-based Program of Academic Exchange (PAX) has declined to reimburse the student for up to $1,700 that his original host mother allegedly absconded with is troubling, but perhaps the organization will change its mind when the district attorney's investigation is complete.
Fortunately for the student, a number of area residents stepped up and made his stay here more welcoming. When Michelle Dickey learned of his plight, she welcomed him into her home for the rest of the school year. He said he had turned over his spending money to his initial host mother, who not only decined to return it but also persuaded his family to send her another $500.
Thanks to the Vacaville Rotary Club, the exchange student ended up with both a monthly stipend as well as an opportunity to see the sights of California with traveling Rotarians. Both Ms. Dickey and the Rotary Club are to be commended for stepping in and showing the kind of hospitality that we would like to believe our communityis known for.
Unfortunately for the student, who returned to Ghana in June, his troubles came before the U.S. State Department adopted new rules for the 130 agencies it licenses to sponsor foreign exchange students. The rules, which took effect this spring, require the agencies to conduct criminal background check on all adult members of host families, to check up on students regularly once they are here, and to teach students to speak up when they have been taken advantage of - something that they may be reluctant to do because of cultural differences.
The State of California has been broached about adopting similar requirements that would affect agencies which sponsor students here but which aren't licensed by the State Department. Assembly Bill 2899 was approved by the Assembly in May, but died in June when its authors declined to accept amendments proposed by members of the California Senate's Committee on Public Safety. Our hope is that this measure would return in some form in the coming legislative year, if only require state-approved exchange student agencies to follow the federal requirements.
In the meantime, it is incumbent upon all of us to keep a watch on exchange students entrusted to our communities. We could do no better than to follow the example set by Ms. Dickey and the Vacaville Rotary Club.
Student Exchange Organization: Program of Academic Exchange (PAX)
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Exchange Student Abuse on the Rise Nationwide, by Julie Kay/The Reporter.Com -- 07/15/06
http://www.thereporter.com/news/ci_4056959
Student Exchange Organization: Program of Academic Exchange (PAX)
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Landlord Accused of Video Voyeurism, The Beacon Journal, July 6, 2006
HUDSON: A 71-year-old Hudson man accused of secretly videotaping co-workers he boarded in his home has been charged with 21 counts of voyeurism.
John M. McMahon of Atterbury Boulevard was also charged with disseminating information harmful to a juvenile after police found a video of McMahon having sex while a child watched, said city spokeswoman Jody Roberts.
Police said McMahon, a former employee of Geauga Lake & Wildwater Kingdom in Aurora, offered ``inexpensive rent'' to foreign exchange students working at the park, then hid small video cameras in their bedrooms.
Several notified police after finding nude pictures of themselves on the home's computer, Roberts said.
Geauga Lake spokeswoman Lexi Robinson said McMahon was fired from the park about two weeks before his June 29 arrest for violating unrelated company policy. He had worked at least two years as a ride and ferry boat operator.
McMahon pleaded not guilty to all charges during video arraignment June 30. A pretrial hearing is scheduled for 3:30 p.m. Tuesday in Cuyahoga Falls Municipal Court.
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Visiting Students Looking for Temporary Homes, by Susan Cairo, July 5, 2006
http://www.venicegondolier.com/NewsArchive3/070506/tp1vn5.htm
Student exchange organization: Global World International
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National Public Radio (NPR) by Libby Lewis, July 5, 2006
NPR : Few Rules Protect Young Foreign Students in U.S.
Student exchange organization: United Students Association (USA)
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EXCHANGE STUDENT LEAVES WITH IMPROVED VIEW OF CITY, by Tasha Kates, June 29, 2006, Lockport Union-Sun Journal
http://www.lockportjournal.com/local/local_story_180003225.html
Student exchange organization: AYUSA Global Youth Exchange
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SAFETY NOW PART OF CULTURE IN STUDENT EXCHAGES, by Laura Schreier, June 13, 2006, The Dallas Morning News
http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/dws/dn/education/stories/061306dnnatexchange.12b81aa0.html
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EHT MAN INDICTED ON CHARGES OF HAVING SEX WITH GERMAN EXCHANGE STUDENT, by Derek Harper, May 20, 2006
Shortcut to: http://www.pressofatlanticcity.com/news/local/atlantic/story/6372440p-6226404c.html
Student Exchange Organization: AYUSA Global Youth Exchange
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FOREIGN EXCHANGE HOST FAMILIES TO FACE BACKGROUND CHECKS, by Alan Scher Zagier, Associated Press, May 5, 2006
The families who host the nearly 30,000 foreign exchange students who stay in this country each year now will have to undergo criminal background checks, under new federal rules that went into effect this week.
http://www.mercurynews.com/mld/mercurynews/news/local/states/california/northern_california/14511542.htm
(c) 2006 AP Wire and wire service sources. All Rights Reserved.
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DEPARTMENT OF STATE REQUIRING BACKGROUND CHECKS OF FAMILY HOSTING FOREIGN EXCHANGE STUDENTS -- by Danielle Grijalva, Kansas City infoZine, May 9, 2006
Shortcut to: http://www.infozine.com/news/stories/op/storiesView/sid/14882/
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HOST FAMILY: NO WORD FROM STUDENT, by Kirsten Stanley/The Ironton Tribune on March 23, 2006
http://www.irontontribune.com/articles/2006/03/23/news/news957.txt
Student exchange organization: AYUSA Global Youth Exchange
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STUDENTS FIGHT FOR FOREIGN EXCHANGE STUDENT by Julie Huck, News Channel 7, WSAW/Wasau, WI March 6, 2006
http://www.wsaw.com/home/headlines/2417441.html
Student exchange organization: AFS
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EXCHANGE PROGRAMS LACK CHECKS FOR HOSTS, Press of Atlantic City, by Madelaine Vitale, March 6, 2006
http://www.pressofatlanticcity.com/news/story/5990594p-5984061c.html
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Exchange Student Abuse Spurs Background checks, New Rules
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From Perth, Australia to Plainwell, Mich., there is a pattern of abuse that is making headlines around the world, according to the Committee for Safety of Foreign Exchange Students, a group of concerned citizens in the United States, a voluntary organization formed to protect the exchange students that arrive in the thousands from all over the world to study in the U.S. |
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Are Foreign Exchange Students Safe?
A Japanese girl’s placement in the home of a convicted felon has raised demands for criminal background checks. Placement agencies counter the situation is being overblown.
By CAROLINE AOYAGI-STOM Executive Editor (October 21, 2005 Issue)
Should a convicted felon be allowed to host a foreign exchange student.
That’s the resounding question after the Committee for the Safety of Foreign Exchange Students (CSFES), a California-based group, recently learned that a 16-year-old Japanese girl has been living in the St. Augustine, Florida home of a convicted felon since August. The committee is demanding her immediate removal.
But F.A.C.E. (Foundation for Academic Cultural Exchange), the organization in Gainsville, Florida that placed the Japanese girl, say they have not violated any guidelines and have since received permission from the girl’s parents in Japan to continue her stay. And they have the approval of the U.S. State Department to back them up.
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HAPPIER TIMES—Sally Smith's daughter Jessica with Mary Vattanasiriporn (right) after Smith took the 16-year-old Thai girl into her home. |
“What precedence does this set? It’s not a healthy placement … it’s unconscionable,” said Danielle Grijalva, director of CSFES, who recently founded the committee after observing questionable practices as a former area representative for a foreign exchange student placement organization. “I would not have had any of my students placed in the home of a convicted felon. I would not want to live in the home of a convicted felon."
But according to Stanley Colvin, U.S. State Department’s director for the office of exchange coordination and designation, F.A.C.E. and its directors Richard and Beverly Moss, have not violated any guidelines and the Japanese girl will continue to stay with her host family.
“The student is still there at the request of the student’s family, whom are fully apprised of all the facts,” he said.
The issue of safety for foreign exchange students in the U.S. is at the forefront since the U.S. State Department recently came out with new proposed guidelines to enforce sex offense background checks for potential hosts. But CSFES and host parents like Sally Smith say the guidelines don’t go far enough and are demanding full criminal background checks for potential hosts.
“Kids should not be used to rehabilitate adults who’ve made poor judgments,” said Smith, an attorney from San Diego, Calif. who has hosted eight foreign exchange students over the years. “Criminal background checks are crucial for the protection of all children.”
The proposed guidelines are currently being reviewed after a 60-day discussion period but even if approved, still would not have prevented the 16-year-old Japanese girl, who’s identity has not been released, from being placed in the home of her host father. That’s because the guidelines call for a background check for sex offenses only and the host father was convicted of burglary in 1994. He was eventually sentenced to 144 months, three years of which he spent in a Georgia prison. The man is currently on parole until July 2006.
The host father, 36, who resides with his wife and children, has also been charged and convicted with grand theft, possessing a short barrel gun, retail theft, eluding a police officer and reckless driving.
Even with his criminal record, this is not the first time the host father has opened his home to foreign exchange students. F.A.C.E. has acknowledged in various media reports that they have placed other foreign exchange students in the St. Augustine man’s home and that Moss knew of the man’s criminal record prior to the placements.
“The case has been dropped,” said Richard Moss, when contacted by the Pacific Citizen. “My side of the story seems to be changed every time I give it so I have no more comments,” he said.
A main reason why the 16-year-old Japanese girl continues to stay with her host family is that both F.A.C.E. and the State Department say they have spoken with the girl and her parents since the complaints and they have no problems with the host father’s prior criminal record.
“They are a bit worried but not that much,” said Toshikazu Shimada, a spokesperson for the Consulate General of Japan’s office in Miami, who has spoken to the student and her parents about the host father’s criminal record. “The parents respect their daughter’s decision,” he said, noting that the daughter seems very happy to continue her stay.
“There’s a lot of misinformation that’s been thrown around [regarding the Japanese girl and F.A.C.E.,” said John Hishmeh, executive director for CSIET (Council on Standards for International Educational Travel), a national non-profit that oversees more than 80 foreign exchange student program organizations. “Those that are directly involved all know and no one is still complaining except for the outsiders.”
But for Grijalva, an at-home mom who has now officially filed a complaint with CSIET against F.A.C.E., that’s not good enough. She questions why Moss did not inform the student and her parents of the host father’s criminal conviction prior to the girl’s arrival in the United States. She also wonders whether the girl is able to fully understand the situation since she speaks limited English.
“Can we please place her in another home? Exchange organizations have fabulous tactics and the language barrier is a tactic,” said Grijalva, noting that many of the agencies require the students to hand over passports, visas, and their return flight tickets. “They take advantage of the students. They are intimidated to keep their mouths shut.”
Smith also questions why F.A.C.E. did not originally tell the 16-year-old Japanese student and her parents she would be staying with a host father with a criminal record. “Would they have approved of a convicted felon before she was placed?” she wondered. “I also question what the company said to the parents. These kids are worried they are going to be sent home.”
This year alone, more than 4,700 Japanese high school exchange students will visit the U.S. In total about 28,000 high school exchange students visit the U.S. each year. According to the U.S. State Department, the number of reported cases of abuse is very low, only five cases of alleged abuse in the past 10 years.
But proponents pushing for change believe the numbers are low because the students are afraid to report the abuse and lack the support of the various agencies, several of which are million dollar businesses. In fact, since Grijalva formed CSFES earlier this year, about ten cases of abuse have been forwarded to her and she receives regular correspondences from students thanking her for her efforts.
Smith has also had her share of concerns. In 2003 then 16-year-old Thai student Mary Vattanasiriporn had been attending the same high school as Smith’s daughter Jessica. It was when Jessica informed Smith of Mary’s horrible living conditions that Smith decided to take action and take Mary into her own home.
“She was living in a garage, sleeping on a sofa and it was freezing. The windows were covered with newspapers. Mary comes from a culture where you don’t complain,” said Smith. “This kid was really mistreated by AISE (American Intercultural Student Exchange).”
Eventually, Mary filed an official complaint with the U.S. State Department against AISE, the agency responsible for her placement, but have never had any action taken on her alleged complaints. Mary is currently back in her homeland attending college in Bangkok, Thailand.
Hishmeh and those in the foreign student exchange community believe the current concern of alleged abuse cases has been blown out of proportion although he believes foreign exchange students need to feel safe.
Some are “misrepresenting them as widespread occurrences,” said Hishmeh of the alleged abuse cases. “But they are still significant and important.”
“The problems are isolated,” said Megan Allen, EF Foundation for Foreign Study’s director of government and school relations. She would not comment on the Florida case saying she was not aware of all the facts but added, “We take student safety seriously.”
CSIET and organizations like EF Foundation believe they are taking active steps in promoting safety for foreign exchange students by supporting the State Department’s proposed guidelines. The CSIET board recently endorsed the proposals and plan to bring the issue before the 80 international youth exchange organizations they represent at their national convention this week.
But for Grijalva and Smith, they question why the State Department, CSIET, and the various foreign student exchange organizations are not joining them in their efforts to demand a full criminal background check for potential hosts.
“The State Department is crumbling under the pressure from the exchange community,” said Smith. “They don’t want to make the extra effort or to incur the minimum of expenses. It’s too much trouble.”
The industry “should be fine tuned for the safety of the students. We need to clean up our act to ensure the safety of our students,” said Grijalva.
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U.S. Cases Prompt Concern
Over Exchange Student Safety
BY ROBERT GOODIER
Tico Times Staff, The Tico Times, October 7, 2005
A spate of highly publicized cases in which foreign exchange students were sexually abused by their host parents in the United States has drawn fire on the U.S. State Departments regulations for host families, and the department is toughening up its prerequisites. Costa Rica, on the other hand, does not officially regulate its exchange programs at all, although authorities say no similar cases have been reported here to date.
"Students have come here (to the United States) and they have been raped and molested and forced to keep quiet about it," Danielle Grijalva, director of the Committee for Safety of Foreign Exchange Students, told The Tico Times.
Over the last year and a half, she has collected the stories of 33 foreign students living in the United States who said they were raped or abused by members of their host families. The U.S. State Department, which has had a tumultuous correspondence with Grijalva, acknowledges five reported cases of sex abuse in the last 10 years. STANLEY Colvin, who heads the U.S. State Departments exchange program regulatory section, the
Do Host Families Here Need Background Checks?
Bureau of Educational and Cultural Affairs, said it is important to note that the problem is not widespread those are only a few cases among the 250,000 exchange students who visited the United States over the last 10 years. This year, 42 Costa Rican students began exchange programs in the United States; there are no known reports of abuse against any Costa Ricans to date.
Grijalvas committee maintains a Web site (www.csfes.org) featuring links to reports in major U.S. media and international publications that detail some of the abuse against exchange students. She also maintains a file of headlines dating from this year back to the late 1990s of rapes, beatings, convictions and damages paid. Those prosecuted this year include a host father who secretly filmed a 16-year-old German student living in his home while she was in her bedroom, and an exchange program coordinator charged for the rapes of three male European students over the last year.
GRIJALVA is now engaged in a dispute with the State Department over the case of a 16-year-old Japanese girl who is living with a host family in which the father is on parole for a 1994 burglary conviction. The students parents were notified, but not until after she was placed with the family. They gave permission for her to continue living there, which satisfied Colvin, but Grijalva said it should have been handled differently and the girl could still be in danger.
Criminal background checks are not mandatory for potential U.S. host families, and the proposed regulation changes do not require them. Rather, they require crosschecks against sex-offender registries, if there is such a registry in the host familys state. They also require exchange-program companies to report complaints of sexual misconduct with the U.S. State Department, something they have not had to do in the past.
Colvin said the rules are now open to public comment and suggestions will be considered. However, he added, none of the five sex abuse cases acknowledged by the State Department would have been averted with a background check, since none of the offenders had a criminal history.
Grijalva said the checks would be a deterrent to pedophiles. "I would like a background check on the family before the student sets sail, and a second one three months after they arrive. Sometimes things arent caught at the time of the initial background check," she said.
A handful of exchange-program companies operate in Costa Rica. Only one of those consulted said it conducts background checks on its U.S. host families the American Field Service (AFS), which has sent 27 students to the United States this year. Others consulted said they screen families through reference checks, personal interviews and visits to their homes, but not background checks.
John Hishmeh, executive director of the U.S.-based Council on Standards for International Educational Travel, told The Tico Times the councils response to the new regulations are under an in-house review and will be made public next week. He did not say whether he supports making background checks mandatory, but he said, "We proposed additional safeguards."
At the U.S. State Departments request, the nonprofit council was formed to help monitor the industry and endorse student exchange companies. HISHMEH is dismayed at what he says is the "mischaracterization" of both how prevalent the sex abuse is and the reaction of the exchange programs.
The sex abuse cases are "horrendous, and of course theyre going to get attention and rightly so," he said, but its important to bear in mind that "these are agencies that believe in what theyre doing, and nobody wants to have pedophiles in their programs. Lets get that off the table." "The fact that these issues are in the spotlight now, he said, is "a sign of the times," comparable to the house-cleaning in the Catholic Church following sexabuse scandals involving priests, and in the Boy Scouts, for example. "Stuff happens, Im sure it does, its not foolproof, but we do have several levels of screening. There isnt a rampant problem, that host parents in the U.S. are pedophiles and its not like theres no screening at all," he said.
NOT so in Costa Rica. In spite of the bad publicity, the United States, with its government and nonprofit watchdogs, is two steps ahead of this country, which apparently does not regulate its exchange programs at all.
Three government departments consulted the Childrens Welfare Office (PANI), the Public Education Ministry and the Foreign Ministry denied responsibility for such oversight, and none knew which branch of government would regulate the industry. AFS spokesman Ral Montero said he is not aware of such a regulatory authority over his business. Also, he added, a bureaucratic legal morass makes conducting background checks on Costa Rican host families impractical. AFS screens families here through reference checks and interviews that can include neighbors and co-workers.
Immigration reports 736 foreigners living in Costa Rica with student visas, many of whom are living with host families. Francisco Ruiz, communications chief for the Judicial Investigation Police (OIJ), said there has never been a report of sex abuse against a host family here. While no reports are on file in Costa Rica, they have surfaced around the world, not just in the United States. Chris Gould, a British police superintendent, began investigating this breed of sex abuse in 1998 and, within a year, had discovered 2,000 cases worldwide. Less than one percent were reported, he said. He created a Web site to help parents make good decisions called Child Safe (www.child-safe.org.uk).
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Dear Japan, France, Germany, Mexico, Australia, Thailand, Korea and Denmark:
Thank you. You know precisely who you are. We want to say thank you for your bravery and for your trust.
A majority of you are between eighteen and forty-five years of age now, which lays bare the long term problems infecting the network of foreign exchange organizations within the United States.
On behalf of The Committee for Safety of Foreign Exchange Students (CSFES) I assure you that your suggestions will be addressed by our staff directly to the United States Department of State. We are striving to ensure that future exchange students are better protected against all forms of abuse, and are better informed of their rights while in this country. Your suggestions are being taken very seriously and are playing a major role in our campaign.
Thank you to all former exchange students who recommended that CSFES petition the US Department of State on behalf of future students, to ensure that passports and return airline tickets are not confiscated by their sponsoring student exchange organization. We understand deeply that having one’s passport and return ticket taken away can make that person feel powerless, and thereby become a major factor in the extortion of silence. Rest assured that altering this particular organizational behavior is a top priority for CSFES.
Regardless of what you were told by your sponsor organization, each and every exchange student past, present and future has extensive rights as an international visitor to the United States. We are saddened to learn that so many are told that it is a violation of international law to report any of the wide ranging forms of abuse of which we have been made aware. Please know that there are many dedicated law enforcement agencies and child abuse foundations across the United States that would not have hesitated to act vociferously on your behalf had you simply been allowed to make that call. We fervently wish you would not have been coerced into not doing so.
While the primary focus of your reports has been sexual abuse, CSFES recognizes that many exchange students have been victimized by extortion and neglect, and we also want to hear from you. You may think you're the only one; but it is becoming eminently clear that these types of cases run into the hundreds and hundreds.
Japan. Five years ago, you were a foreign exchange student to the United States. We have been apprised of your story and we want you to know that CSFES is turning this matter over to the proper authorities. You were kidnapped and raped and found at 3:00 in the morning alone at a gas station. Your sponsor student exchange organization coerced and bribed your with a “reward” of a free airline ticket back to the United States if you would “only” keep your mouth shut and "act as if nothing happened". Many concerned citizens are looking to the United States Department of State to effect change by ensuring that future exchange students are provided with Child Protection Guidelines that are teen-friendly, and when necessary, have the ability to connect with an organization that will put them in direct contact with a translator.
For any former exchange students who have been victims of abuse but have yet to share your experiences, we would like you to be aware that you can make a huge difference by coming forward. We understand your experience likely left you reluctant to share your concerns directly with the Department of State. However, we at CSFES strongly encourage you to share your suggestions via email at jexchanges@state.gov. Please reference RIN No.: 400-AC13, and include a copy to the Committee for Safety of Foreign Exchange Students attention Dgrijalva@csfes.org. This will allow us to track your input and ensure that it is given the attention it deserves.
For those of you who wish to continue to share your suggestions with the Committee for Safety of Foreign Exchange Students, we remain here for you. Our power is in our numbers. We are asking you to please come forward, each and every one of you!
Respectfully,
Danielle Grijalva, Director
Committee for Safety of Foreign Exchange Students
P.O. Box 6496
Oceanside, CA 92052
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Former exchange students' claim of sexual abuse by Reporter: Lisa Whitehead, ABC Online/Stateline, June 08, 2004
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The Committee for Safety of Foreign Exchange Students shares with you the following, which comes from a survivor of exchange student abuse:
Exchange students should be encouraged to report abuse to their natural parents first as the exchange program will not always have the best interest of the student in mind.
If any form of sexual contact occurs or the exchange student has been abused, the student exchange organization must immediately remove the student from the home, notify proper authorities, provide a safe home and therapy to the victim. The student should have the option of returning to his/her home country, but should not be compelled to do so.
Sexual harassment is the precursor to assault and rape; therefore, must always be taken very seriously. Exchange students should never be placed in a home if a relative has been suspected of harassment or abuse.
Exchange students should be encouraged to make friends locally, that they can speak to confidentially.
Students should be provided with information about procedures and resources available for coping with rape. Students should be aware of all services available, but also be warned about the dangers of utilizing those services, as students in some countries may be in danger if they go to a police station alone to report sexual assault (re-victimization is common.)
It is important for a woman to be monitoring the situation closely. If a female from outside of the host family gets to know the exchange student, it will be easier to observe changes in behavior and the symptoms of abuse.
If a family member or friend initiates any kind of relationship, in such a situation the exchange student would be supported no matter what.
An exchange student who does not have emotional support may become sexually promiscuous or turn to drugs or alcohol as a result of having been abused. The student must have resources at their disposal to find a more positive outlet for their pain. If symptoms continue, the student will need extensive therapy.
An abuser can drive an exchange student to the point of suicide in order to protect themselves. Therefore, do not under any circumstances ever confront the host family about your suspicions of abuse. This is likely to cause torment to the student and make him/her feel as if he/she is to blame.
An exchange student may have good reason for maintaining silence. Don't force the student to tell what happened. Simply make it clear that you will be supportive and then allow the student to decide whether or not to disclose. Maintain absolute confidentiality and only take action, after discussing all of the possible consequences.
The most common source of anxiety for a rape victim is that someone might find out what happened and blame the student. Don't encourage the student to tell you what happened unless you are certain that you can be supportive. To do otherwise is to intensify the trauma.
What exchange programs can do:
Make it clear to all host families that action will be taken against anyone who sexually harasses or behaves inappropriately towards any exchange student.
Be aware of the symptoms of abuse and make sure that all prospective host families are aware that the exchange program will in every instance take action to protect an exchange student.
Have a policy that a student or host family can easily request that the student be moved to a new home with no explanation and no further questioning. Policy to include that a student can ask to be moved on a moment's notice without the host family even finding out prior to his/her departure. Anything less will endanger the student.
Male exchange students must also have protection against abusers, even from females. If he is told that inappropriate behavior is not abuse he may feel justified in repeating this behavior to a young woman later in life.
The symptoms of a male victim and the signs of a female predator may be different and warrant input from other survivors.
No family should ever feel obligated to take in an exchange student.
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